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Tuesday, May 10, 2005

For The Guys (some)

Hello Guys...Well generally, this is meant for those SHY GUYS WHO ARE AFRAID TO ASK THE GIRL WHOM HE LIKES WHETHER SHE IS INTERESTED IN HIM! So...if you already have gotten yourself a girl please exit this bloggy hehehe.

Hmm...you just EITHER don't have the guts to ask OR you don't know how to ask. Either one of those are your reason to why YOU haven't asked her. You hate to wonder...I know that but you're going to keep wondering until one day IF you're LUCKY she approaches you and made the first move blah blah blah OR you could be UNlucky that someone approached her. You figure that one out yourself.

One thing...you got to ask yourself these two questions, 'DO I WANT TO BE SINGLE THROUGHOUT MY LIFE?' and 'WILL I EVER REGRET IN FUTURE IF I NEVER GOT TO KNOW THE ANSWER OR EVEN TRY?' You know if you don't ask, you're going to end up one day regretting and thinking how it would have been if that guy was you. It could have ended happy or sad ending but at least you wouldn't have to wonder.

Simply look at me, I accepted Tieme and I didn't really have to wonder how it would be like if I didn't accept him. He broke off with me and that was a good thing that I got to know how he was really like. I think you may not really understand what I'm on about. What I'm trying to say is, you should take the guts to know, whether the two of you are meant to be or not. Like you're missing a chance when the girl is a GREAT one; if only you were with her.

If you're afraid or something like that, just have a tune in your head that you're comfortable with, fast beat...cool funky beat, whatever it is just have it and have it while you're walking towards her and then once you're facing her, imagine her to be some manequin and say this, 'I have something to tell you but I hope you won't feel awkward. I just need to really know as I couldn't feel comfortable without knowing. I like you and I would really like to know whether you're interested in me.' It is always best to do in person instead of having a middle person coz it is much sincere and such and not too cold...if you know what I mean. It gives better impression. Just simply ask her out to a movie or meal or drink or walk. JUST THE TWO OF YOU...no other friends coz those will be a distraction.

Well, don't come crying to anyone if you'd lost her...as you just let your chance go when there was one or a few times. I know some of you rather save friendship than ruining it. You fear that if you asked, it might make her feel awkward...so be it but itz OK, the two of you could still be friends if you got rejected. I mean FOR A MOMENT, the both of you will feel weird but after a while...it will be OK. I don't know about me...but I'm a little annoyed by all of this. You want to know why? You guys (some) are behaving like girls in a way. When a girl likes a guy she's a little shy and afraid to ask...now the guys (some) are becoming whimps. Itz OK...just too much estrogen in you than testosterone. Sorry...I know I am insulting you guys (some) but eh, just need some wake up there. Either you regret or don't...itz up to you. Think it over carefully.

NOTE: Do not hold any grudges or discrepancies on the author. She is just stating whatever her brain tells her to. Just treat this as a fun fun reading thing.

TAKE CARE!

VEEL PLEZIER!

Christine.

PS: I'll do about the girls next time...

posted by CHRIS.TINE | 4:45 pm

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